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“And you shall order schnitzel …”

by Bradley Egel, NFTY and OSRUI Alum

People frequently talk about generational leadership. The Hebrew phrase, l’dor vador, literally means “from generation to generation,” and is most often applied to the handing down of leadership from one generation to the next. If a person is lucky enough to be present at a bar or bat mitzvah, they likely will see the symbolic “handing of the Torah” from one generation to the next. It is an ideal. It is a wonderful hope: that the next generation of Jewish leaders will take the skills and talents their mentors have passed onto them, and in turn, nourish and enrich themselves enough to continue this leadership chain as they go through life’s journey.

But there is no magic formula to make this happen. Many people become disengaged from their Jewish communities, their families, their core friends, and even their own ideals that at one time seemed so important. Why does this happen? Why do we lose touch with the people and things that at one time in our life meant so much to us?

Youth involvement and engagement with NFTY, the Reform Jewish Youth Movement, is more like learning a foreign language than riding a bike. I took German classes in high school more than 20 years ago. I learned a lot of German. I even ordered my food in German on a class field trip to a German restaurant in downtown Chicago during Oktoberfest. It was a great schnitzel. Ah, the memories. And yet, after a couple of years, I had completely forgotten nearly all the German I was taught. To this day I only remember how to say a few words, and of course ask, “Where is the bathroom?” Unlike the ability to ride a bike with little effort after many years of not riding, I lost the ability to speak German because I did not make it a priority or have a connection with it in my life. And so it went away. No more schnitzel ordering for me.

My NFTY experience has been completely the opposite. I never distanced myself from it. I knew inherently that without utilizing and passing down ideals of NFTY youth leadership, I would lose touch with everything I had grown to love so much about being part of the NFTY community. If a person does not regularly reactivate their connection with NFTY, their interest tends to turn towards other things. And then, no NFTY schnitzel for you.

Read the complete blog post on RJ.org.